Ebube Nwagbo talk say she no dey rush marry. She want peace, true love, and happiness, no be pressure from society.
I no dey rush marry. Nobody—family, friends, or even social media—fit make me shame or feel say I don dey left behind. I dey 42 years now, and e dey okay like dat. I don see people wey marry at 25, but years later dem waka comot, full of pain and heartbreak. Some no recover, dem just dey lost, quiet, and depressed. The kind wahala wey dem carry… e too much. Society no dey see all dat one until e don too late. Na that time dem go start dey pretend say dem care.
Me, I want peace, no be pressure. I want love, no be wound. I want better home, no be cage. Marriage suppose be like breathing—free and natural—no be like say pesin dey drown. I no go enter marriage just to impress anybody or because time dey run. No deadline reach to scatter my peace of mind. I want something wey dey real. And if e go take time, no wahala.
E better make I enter late and complete, than rush enter early come comot in pieces.
— Ebube Nwagbo
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